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Engagement Ring
Before we get started, can I be honest with you? The best
way to buy her an engagement ring she'll love is to let her
pick it out herself. She'll wear this ring every day. It
must feel good on her finger and it must suit her lifestyle.
Sometimes it takes trying on many, many diamond shapes and
setting styles to determine which ring is truly "best."
But you still want to go it alone, don't you? Maybe because
you want to surprise her with the engagement ring, or
because you don't want her to be involved with pricing and
payment issues. That's fine--if you put some thought into it
you can buy an engagement ring that she'll love almost as
much as she loves you.
Number 1: Pay Attention!
Paying attention to her jewelry likes and dislikes is the
first big step towards finding her the perfect engagement
ring:
What
metal color does she wear now?
Most women have a definite preference. If she loves
white
gold
or
platinum,
don't even look at a diamond or other stone mounted in a
yellow gold ring setting.
What style of jewelry does she wear now?
Is it contemporary-looking, with bold styling? Does she
prefer vintage looking rings? Or would you say that the
jewelry she wears is classic, resembling those timeless
pieces that never go out of style?
The best indication of her tastes is the jewelry she wears
all the time, not items she only wears occasionally,
because it's the full-timers that she's most comfortable
with.
Number 2: Has She Hinted at her Likes and Dislikes?
Has she ever mentioned her favorite jewelry styles or
pointed out engagement rings when you're shopping together?
If not, take her shopping. It isn't difficult to steer
yourselves towards the jewelry stores. If you want to be
subtle, say you're looking for a new watch, but be sure to
pause at the engagement ring counters.
Maybe she has a friend who recently became engaged. Does she
like her friend's engagement ring? Why or why not?
Does she like diamonds? Some women don't. Sapphires and
rubies are both durable gemstones that are often set into
engagement rings for women who don't like to wear diamonds.
Number 3: What Looks Best on Her Hands?
An elongated diamond, such as a marquise or oval, can make
short fingers look more sleek--but be careful not to overdo
the look or it could have the opposite effect.
Wide bands usually make fingers appear even shorter than
they are, so think proportional:
Women with long fingers can easily wear bold ring styles.
A setting that's extremely delicate could get lost on
large hands, over-emphasizing their size and making the ring
look smaller.
Number 4: Choose the Right Shape & Setting
Round diamonds are the number one shape chosen by brides,
but maybe not your bride. She might prefer an
elongated marquise, oval or pear-shaped stone, or an square
or emerald cut diamond. Fancier shapes, such as hearts, are
another option.
Do you think she'd like a solitaire diamond, set alone in a
band, or would she prefer a cluster of stones? Her current
jewelry can give you clues about her preferences.
Number 5: Consider her Lifestyle
How will the ring fit in with her lifestyle? Does she work
in a profession where fussy jewelry would look out of place?
Even if she doesn't, remember that a pointed gem with high
prongs could snag clothing (and people) and is harder to
keep clean. Save that type of ring for gifts that will be
worn on special occasions, not every day.
Number 6: What's her Ring Size?
Does she have rings that she wears on her engagement finger?
Maybe a friend or family member could get hold of one of
them long enough for you to have it sized. Of course, you'll
have to swear the messenger to secrecy.
Number 7: Consider a Loose Diamond
If you think you know which shape she loves, buy a loose
diamond to show her when you ask the big question. The two
of you can shop together later for the perfect engagement
ring setting.
Now that you have a better feel for the style of ring she
might prefer, it's time to consider the diamonds that will
go into it. Start with the Four C's, then take some time to
browse other topics in Diamond Basics and Engagement Ring
Resources. If she's not into diamonds, start with the
articles in Colored Gemstones.t
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